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Online networking is a popular and effective technique to achieve goals create traffic and assist everyone in the networking group. Net workers are always making strong connections. Following up, keeping in touch, and forming win-win strategic planning process and mastermind groups, in business society, on Internet or any category of life.

Online networking actually can be called as building best bond within a group. If you are not a networker you can not be a leader. Because leadership comes with community and there is no community without network.

So, as a blogger, if you want to be known by the world wide web to create any kind of influence, you have to network.

Networking as a blogger will get you known in the blogsphere, and with that you will get the benefits of the blogging community. As a blogger it may get you the traffic you need to rank your blog.

Your blog all by yourself is like a strong big tree in a desert. And no one will know you.

Commenting on blogs is good for the search engines and good for your networking. It is a social activity knowing others who do like you do.
It provides you optimization like social book marking sites

It is easy to succeed as a net worker as you do not have to do anything special or out of the way you just have to make sure that you treat everyone with respect and integrity. This can be done easily with a nice behavior and spending some time and effort of knowing the net working partners and sincerity.

Just like any other net working, blogging network community is open to everyone as long as your personal net work values are strong and ethical.

The great news is blog netwokers are not born. Once you start blogging you want to be know by other bloggers for two main reason you want to be recognized as a blogger and you want to optimize your blog. To empower your blogging effort you can work on your social nature and get to know other bloggers by networking, it is this simple. The basic rules of blog networking are based on three main principles. By the way these rules can be used for any kind of networking too.

1. The Law of abundance:

There are plenty of opportunities for everyone. Lots of different blogs with different niches and different ideas. All blogs are different from each other but we can always communicate and find better thing for ourselves and each other. That is the real spirit of blog networking. Comment to create traffic to blog is a great networking activity to support each other to optimize better. Great blog net workers believe in an abundance of opportunities.

2. The Law of Reciprocity:

This law applies to all the positive activity of a group and works in blog network work too. Whatever we will give to our blog network will comeback in our blogging efforts ten folds.

3. The Law of Giving without expectations:

In the blog network group do not expect to get back directly from the source you have given. It comes to you sooner or later in different forms, you are not able to realize. So just give and forget. This is the blog network basics

So when you are networking as a blogger the more people you will know the more you will give, try to influence positively as we all want to be positive and be recognized for things that are accepted by majority. People who develop strong clusters of networking groups are called master net workers, and everyone has some of these master net workers in every group.
These cluster create traffic to their own blogs and everyone’s blog in the group

As Jacinta Dean proved to be a master net work and developed 100 comments challenge for so many of us with network basics. Now we have a few cluster in this group which is good and natural.

Here are the 10 Commandments of becoming a Blogging Networker of Influence

1. Blog networking is a skills, Pay attention to networking group and be sincere.

2. Value your blogging network. Every member is a part of it. The opinion they gain for you affect their future opinion of you.

3. Connect with your blogging network heart to heart. Aim to be totally present and in the moment all the time and achieve goals for networking blog.

4. Arm yourself with a shortest title with your name for recognition in your blogging net work. A logo icon on paper can also become an asset to the group

5. Be friends with everyone in your blog network group and accept them as they are.

6. Communicate with every one as the all look at you as a role model to learn from you and change for the better.

7. The most powerful people in your blogging network are those who share all the information they have. Those who utilize the information are able to get blog traffic with the network activities.

8. It is not wrong to create smaller groups of like minded people with in your blogging net work. It is completely natural and approved by net working strategies.

9. Build a great relationship with everyone in the online blog networking group. Not all the members will be following you or helping you and that does not mean they are to be neglected. Have a strong relation ship with the full group as much as possible. This is networking basics.

10. Follow up with your blog networking friends as soon as possible. Give your time for networking to keep moving a head in your group and create strength to it. Do not think “what is in it for me“. It is the personal strength of networking basics that makes your group strong and provides blog traffic.

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100 Responses to “Online Networking And Your Personal Network To Blog Sites”

  • Wow, I have to say that your 10 commandments are right on the target.

    One thing I have to agree the most and note to everyone else is that no matter how different opinions the comments on your blog or on a blog where you want to comment are, you have to embrace them, after all, what kind of a community would you be creating if you only joined with like minded people like Fran said.
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi again:

      You are right. Networking groups usually are bigger groups and they have clusters of smaller groups in it. And many times those clusters of groups become like minded groups. Network marketing is to accept people as they are to celebrate each others differences and create a diversified application of same theory around and to support each other.

      Thanks for the comments.

      Talk again
      Fran aslam

  • Hi Fran,

    Nice post! Blog netwokers are not born; it’s a skill anyone can develop if the right attitude and right amount of work can be put on it.

    You’re right, you don’t network for networking’s sake. Anyone looking out to network should value community and the exchange of knowledge and opinion.

    Awesome post!
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Marlon:

      Thank you for the kind words. I hope you can find something to use for getting more traffic to your site.

      Talk again

      Fran Aslam

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Marlon:

      Thanks for visiting my site and writing a comment to my current blog post I appreciate it very much.

      Fran Aslam

  • Really good post – thank you. I am adding “master net workers” to my collection of synonyms:-

    = “Nexuses of Exchange” -Rawn Shah @ Forbes
    = “Connectors” – Malcolm Gladwell in “Tipping Point”
    = “Hubs” – Mia de Kuijper in ”Profit Power Economics”

    Any more for the list. Maybe a Social Networking Thesaurus beckons…
    Phil O’Brien recently posted..“I’m right behind you” – but how far can that be when you are online

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Phil:

      Thanks for liking my blog post. I will go to your site to see your blog and read the latest post to comment .

      Fran Aslam

  • Hey Fran!

    Been quite busy but I made it! This is absolutely fantastic as you could written this as a guest post for the 100 Blog Comments Challenge. That would totally wipe the ballpark out. :)

    I like the commandments as well as that is the exact strategies which in a group, once implemented rewards each other. Furthermore, you’re a master networker yourself.

    From Day 1, you’ve shown me that just from commenting, visiting and reaching out, you can be seen and you have been. I’m seeing you everywhere I go now. Awesome work!
    Thu Nguyen@BloggingFor recently posted..Biography Fridays- Dan Lew Owning SEO

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thu :

      Well what a surprise. Thanks for the comments and the kind words that you have used are very encouraging. Yes Thu before 100 comment challenge I knew Sally from the group and did not know blog hopping. I knew all kind of SEO, and I always provided traffic to myself, wordpress I started only in May of 2010, so I learned to create credibility only with 100 comment challenge. Now I am a pro in that.

      Also you deserve a hand of applause, you have made so much progress yourself. You are at the prime of your life ready to explore the world and I am sure you will not take long to be in those marketers who have made it successfully.

      You know the big difference in you and me as a marketer. I am retired and want to continue my life as a professional as much I can with a belt of lots of experience. You are learning and applying with a youthful strength and knowledge. I always appreciate the young talent as they feel like my own children to me. Because when I see the world with a keen eye I see it as a place where my children and all other younger people have to play a big part and I have to watch it. So your progress and hard work pleases me. I will not take too much of your time
      as you are a wife a professional writer and a marketer, I know it is hard to find time for everything.

      Enjoy the week end.

      Fran Aslam

  • Hello Fran,

    The 10 commandments are right on the money.

    You truly are an awesome networker. I can say that from the quality of the comments you leave in blogs around the blogosphere. I see you everywhere.

    I so agree with the point that great networkers are not born that way…It is all about taking action and actually doing it..

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Adam:

      Thanks for visiting my site and writing kind words. This encourages me to keep on going.
      Adam I feel very good when I read your blog post. You have learned a lot and the personal development you show in your words is exceptional.

      Take care

      Fran Aslam

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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thu:

      Thanks for the ping back. I had a family day today away from the computer. I just came to my computer and saw your ping and then your post. Thank you ever so much for doing that. This will certainly help me. I will be writing a post like this in two to three weeks and you and your blog will be mentioned there For sure.

      I wish you best in your career.

      Talk again

      Fran Aslam

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thu:

      Thank yo for the kind words and thoughtful caring you provide to blogging network. Your success follows with your focus and mind set. I am impressed with your outstanding growth.

      I will come to your site to write this comment.

      Talk again

      Fran Aslam

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thu:

      Thanks, I have a feeling I have replied to this comment before. At my site it is not showing, so Thaks for mentioning me in your post.

      Talk again

      Fran Aslam.

  • Hi Fran

    Great post and brilliant timing, I have just returned to your blog as my analytics has highlighted your blog as a traffic source for mine.

    I am slowly working through my Feeddemon list from the 100 blog challenge and even if they are not providing traffic, the joy of seeing the world from another persons perspective is far more valuable than a simple statistic.
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hello Igor :

      Thank you so much for wtiting a comment. So, Google analytics really work.

      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran,
    I love the way you lay out the 10 commandments of blog networking. It’s a good set of practical rules as well as a good philosophy for really developing some good blogging community friends.
    Richard recently posted..Romance Me with Your Content

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Richard:

      Thank you for visiting my blog and writing kind words wile commenting the post. I certainly appreciate it. I will go and check out your blog.

      Talk again

      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran
    This postcovers some important points Fran. Glad I stopped by. It is so important to be a giver in the community and contribute to others blog success. I see you commenting a lot on others sites and interacting so you are walking the walk; not just talking the talk. Here’s to your success Fran.
    Patricia Perth Australia
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Patricia:

      Nice to see you visiting my site and writing a comment after reading my post. Yes pat word press blog have increased my view to the world wide web. I have had a few websites in the past, but now for a while I was only writing online, I started as article writer and then started writing for others. Blog was a part of writing, but now I feel like going back to internet marketing again.
      I learned the networking part of online marketing with blogging. Learning never ends. I am feeling so good connecting to people, it is a real socialization, because I connect with my heart,
      and so the bond becomes stronger naturally.

      You are doing good too. I see your comments are increasing and your writing is improving.
      So, when are you thinking of creating a product.

      Thanks again.
      Fran Aslam

  • Fran,

    You really point out some great truth in both your “laws” and your commandments.

    It is a very true fact that when you go out and give freely, in the workd of blogging and social networking it is often returned many times over.

    People are sharp. They know pretty quickly when someone is out for them selves.

    There is nothing wrong with doing something like commenting because you ultimately want to drive more traffic, but to do it in a selfless manner, and also provide quality is important. When you are able to do that you really will be paid back many times!
    Steve@lifestyle design recently posted..How to Improve Your Writing Skills

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Steve:

      Thanks for your insight and comment on the post. I really learned networking with commenting on blogs. I did not know before that I can comment on other people’s blogs, if I do not know them.
      I signed up with a blog networking group of 100 comments in a month. That is how I really started writing comments.

      I am looking forward to see your blog’s new look and what ideas you have stored up during vacation.

      Take care

      Fran Aslam

  • Nice article Fran. Successful bloggers recognize that social networking is one of their best tools for building awareness. It also provides us with a network of peers. We all have our own specialties and as we form relationships, we can draw on the strengths and skills of the other people in our network.

    Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment on my blog. It was a good (and successful) way to introduce yourself. In return, I’ll tweet and amplify this for you. Plus, I’ll be back!
    Sherryl Perry recently posted..Create an Online Presence – Be Seen Out There

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Sherryl:

      You are right, social network is the trend of the time and I think networking is better marketing.
      Thank you for visiting my site and reading my post. I have not use a landing page yet. But I was thinking to do so for article marketing. So, you are not using it yet? Once you have one I want to have a look at it, how it feels. I think it is like a micro website, or detailed squeeze page.

      It was a pleasure meeting you
      Talk again
      Fran Aslam

  • Awesome advise. I love the 10 commandments. I try to network with my piers, target audience, and just about anyone else as much as I can. It is a never ending story.
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  • Hi Fran,

    Networking is crucial for bloggers and your post shows clearly why and how.

    Giving without expecting anything back from those you give to is the essence of true giving.

    While using the internet to network with others I find that meeting with fellow bloggers and internet marketers face to face at live events contributes a lot to mutual understanding and creates even a stronger bond.

    Vance@Lee McIntyre Vancouver Interview recently posted..Internet Marketing Event- Networking At Canada Marketing Summit

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Vance:

      Thank you so much for visiting my site. I am glad you like the blog post. Yes Vance networking is all about giving, and it is a special giving. It is a giving that brings three fold but without notifying.

      So, I did go to your site, but as are as I remember I did not see a new post to read or write about. I will go and check now.

      Thanks again
      Make it a great day for yourself
      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran,
    This is a very comprehensive post, and I liked the 10 commandments very much. I agree that building a great relationship with people who wanted to interact with you should not be ignored. After all, they are your keys to success. Thank you for sharing this!
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  • Hi Fran.

    First of I would like to thank for considering my suggestion and adding fabulous image on your blog post which looks awesome.

    As usual, Great points on Fran tips. Networking is the major part of getting traffic. It is like a give and take policy between the bloggers and business people..

    Waiting to watch another blog with Video Fran.

    Great Day.
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thiru:

      You are a busy person. I think you do work full time and then blog for fun.
      Let me know. I will go to your site and check your post.

      Thank you.

      Fran Aslam

  • you are right Fran, i am working as an internet marketing executive full time for an organization, so i have no time to do blogging.

    Newly i have joined as a partner of a site called Webapprater. http://www.webapprater . It is the site for reviewing web applications also free classifieds site. Just have a look at my new site and suggest me the ways to promote it Fran. you can mail me your suggestion to my mail id.

    Do the needful Fran.

    good day. !
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Thiru:

      Let me see you site, and then I will email you about that. I will try to do it sometime today,
      though is a busy day, I am behind in my work. But I like doing Internet marketing.
      See you soon

      Fran Aslam

  • Fran,

    I think networking is important in online and offline, but it can be made more fun by doing things you love, commenting on blogs you like, and being genuine always.

    Sometimes, you will truly find true friends where never imagined it, and that is best networking!
    Zengirl @ Heart and Mind recently posted..Honoring Beautiful People with Beautiful Heart!

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Preeti:

      I agree wit you 100%. That is the best natural networking that has human touch and love and attention for each other. But the like everything else there are rules and so is Networking. Because networkers are millionaires and it does not happn simply by natural network.
      Thank you for your insight.
      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran, I like what you wrote about networking and blogs especially what you said about giving without expecting anything in return.

    A lot of people may not agree but it’s the best quality one can have. The world needs it. As a result good things happen.

    Terry Conti
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  • Fran!

    Look at the comments thread, ignore the post and see that YOU are the community you blog of.

    Well done girl- watching you grow is awesome!!
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Alex:

      Yes Alex, it is young people like you who make me feel I have to keep moving ahead, There is no going back. I Know everything about marketing but did not know blog hopping Until I met Sally, then I came to know about 100 comment challenge. And now everyone tells me that I have done good. I could have not done it without you all. Networking is powerful.

      So, thank you my friend as you call it mate. your comment is awesome and I value it.

      Make it a great week end for yourself
      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran, I think your blogging 10 commandments is excellent. It’s really what we should be striving for. Thanks for sharing these things!
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Matthew:

      Nice of you to visit my blog, I certainly appreciate it very much and thank you for placing a comment on my blog. That give me a chance to visit your blog and read your blog post. I am glad you liked the 10 commandments.

      Talk again
      Fran Aslam

  • Hi Fran,
    Thanks for your visit to my bolg and the kind words.

    Your post is awesome …. as you mentioned in your first 3 points …it is a law and therefore it is not negotiable …

    The 10 commandments are also excellent ..
    now to start using them.

    Excellent post.


    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Bryan:

      What a surprise, I did go to your site yesterday, bust something happened and I did not get to write a comment. I am glad you are here. I am glad you like my netwroking post
      I myself like this post too. So thank you very much for visiting my site and placing a comment here. I appreciate it very much.


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  • Hi Fran,

    I can see here a great example of “Practice what you preach” :-)

    Look what you have done to this post… the comments are speaking for themselves. From what I can see, you are a great “networker” yourself. I appreciate your enthusiasm and dedication.

    Thank you for dropping by my site and leaving a comment. It had gone into spam, and I was lucky to have spotted it and released it from there. I’m glad that the post “The Master Key to Success” helped you the other day. Thanks for your kind words in response to that.

    I am starting a challenge on “gratitude” this month, and was wondering if you would like to participate in it. As of this writing, you can be the first one to jump onto it, so do check out my latest post. I’ll see you around on my site then?

    I look forward to keeping in touch with you.

    Wishing you success,
    Mark of Success recently posted..Announcing the challenge for November 2010

    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Mark of Success:

      So, Mark is your name. I used to take it as a phrase. So Mark thanks for visiting my site and leaving a comment I certainly appreciate it very much.

      Yesterday, when I visited your blog I did not even know that it is your site, I blog hop too much ( you call it networking) When I get bored with real work at computer, I blog hop, it is like going to a walk for relaxing. Did it made you laugh yet :)

      If I would have known that I am at your blog I will write a better comment, as I see you on Steve’s blog, and his friend must have great blogs. As they say it is the like mindedness that puts people in groups.

      Now I will go to your blog often to get a link from you and give you one in exchange for writing a comment. We all want to know each other and we all want our traffic to go higher than what it is now. Agree. I bet you are making money right now with your niche.

      You have a website or a blog to do so. I do write to make money, but I want to start another stream, also.

      All the best


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  • Hi Fran,

    Yes, “Mark of Success” is a catch phrase, and it is my trademark :-) I like it because it can be taken in multiple ways…

    You are right in that like-minded people get together… or rather, it so happens that people who take the time and effort to reach out land up being in the company that takes them to the next level. I’m sure you can see the benefits for yourself.

    I look forward to seeing you around on my site…

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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hey thanks for a comment. You know when you write a comment you write about my blog not yours. next time write about my blog. Thanks


  • Boy, that’s an absolute “SEO SPAM”! Fran, If I were you, I would have probably deleted it. But I think your reply was an apt one :-)
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    • Fran Aslam:

      Hi Mark:

      Yes mark “SEO SPAM” I have mad some rules for spaming the comment. My rule number one is to check the website, is it legit? Because many spam even without a web page.
      If the site is legit, I check the email address, can this person be contacted? If i can email to them, then I feel if there is something good in this link? even if the comment is for the person who is placing the ad for his service I accept, why it is the need of this online person who is wasting his time and effort thinking he/she is trying the best according to him/her.

      If website is not given I spam it right away. Thanks for your comment.

      Make it a great week end for yourself.

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